FINDING YOUR CONFIDENCE WHEN NOTHING FITS / OUTFIT

I went shopping for this look. Yes, you read correctly, I buy ALL of my clothes. I do not sponsor fashion posts, only beauty, travel, and food. So while shopping the same day I purchased these Zara pants, I had a breakdown. Nothing I tried on fit right. Everything was either too small on the butt, or too big on the waist. So I sat there at Zara with my boyfriend waiting outside of my fitting room and felt sorry for myself but then I reminded myself of the strong and confident woman I am and got over it.
But it dawned on me, I do not like when other girls suffer from this issue and I know I am not the only one because I am a personal shopper and stylist. Trying on clothes that you want to buy but that do not fit right is one of the worst things a woman can experience.
So you may ask what the outcome of my shopping was. I bought what I damn pleased and went to dinner had myself a fancy shrimp pasta and finished with an eclair.
As women, we tend to be so hard on ourselves and that is not good, or healthy. I am so sick and tired of media selling “skinny” to the point where women and men starve themselves to fit a certain body image. That is definitely not healthy. And what I want to do here on www.BeatriceBalaj.com is encourage each and every one of you that you are NOT alone. We need to stand up and demand brands to change their appearance of “perfect”. Because let me tell you, I am perfect and so are you. Beauty is truly in the eyes of the holder and we need to trust ourselves and poor more love in ourselves.
So the next time you try on clothes and they do not fit right, remember it is not your body, but their brand and the sizing issue with their factories. Shop elsewhere and enjoy your eclairs ladies and gents!
Jen
Such an adorable look! And this post was so helpful, I think it happens to all of us ♥
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Sharan
Love this outfit. You look FAB xoxo
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BeingIsabella
I struggle with the exact same problem as you. Just the other day I was in Express, and was in the fitting room for 2 hours because none of the jeans fit me right! This is such an important subject and I’m glad you made a most about it. And I LOVE those pants on you!
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Yvonne
Those pants are so cute and love the bag! Happy weekend!
xo Yvonne
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Shopdealman
Awesome post! Love the all photos.
Jessica
Totally agree with this sentiment! Buy what makes you happy, and don’t worry about the rest.
Love this yellow on you!
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Dresscape
Thanks for this empowering post! Great look!
xx
Claire from Dresscape
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Funmi
This post is very valuable,and I hope everyone can be encouraged to feel their best even when nothing fits as well as they should.
You do look great in this outfit.
Funmi x
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Mariann Yip
Adore this outfit, and your curves look amazing girl! http://mariannyc.com/2018/03/23/summer-fridays-jet-lag-mask-review/
Andreea
Those white trousers are really cool! Love the athleisure trend and we should definitely wear what makes us feel good. Have a nice day! xx
Andreea,
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Rena
Thanks a lot for your wonderful tips!
xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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Desires In Style
Great post!! You look amazing! 😉
kisses
Agnese & Elisa
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Mahi
these pants killing… love it
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Mahi
these pants killing… love it combo
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Simply Sory
Cada vez me gusta más el amarillo mezclado con el blanco. Brutal.
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Paola Lauretano
Great sense of style babe, I love your outfit!
Kisses, Paola.
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Patricia & Miguel
Loving that colorful outfit, you look so wonderful on it 😀
Sending all the love,
xx
Patricia & Miguel
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carolina vega
really amazing look!! love thos pants and this bag is soooo great
kisses dear
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Glowyshoes
Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder and we don’t need no brand to tell us what it takes to be perfect cos we are perfect just the way we.
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Daniela
You look so pretty! This is a really cool outfit! Your words are wise and true. I wish every woman would feel good in her own skin.
Daniela
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Annick
I can so relate to not being able to find cute things in my size! thank you for sharing this post ?
https://annicklau.com/home/2018/3/chatting-with-alejandro-arenas-of-thinking-mu
moda & style
Wowww!!! Fantastic outfit, absolutely stunning!!!
Thanks for sharing with
Have a lovely day 🙂
Alice
All the pieces of this outfit are so beautiful and unique,
I totally love this combination!
Alice, Women Fashion